I have to constantly remind myself of this: no one will care what I wear!
I’m not a fashionista. Heck, I dress for comfort, and I am not terrifically stylish. Plus I’m lazy. I don’t get my nails done. I don’t color my hair and rarely cut it. It is, in fact, “wash and wear” hair. (Yes, I promise you I really am that lazy.)
But when it comes to trips I tend to go a bit nuts figuring out what I should bring. I usually end up buying more clothing just for the trip, which is entirely unnecessary since I have enough to wear.
More than enough. (I just filled the clothing bag for Ridwell to pick up tomorrow, in fact. I do NOT need all this stuff!)
So how much do I bring on a trip anyway?
I’m working on this plan for now:
5 tops
3 pair of pants
2 “toppers” (one hoodie, one lightweight sweater)
1 dress … maybe
2 pair of shoes
Of these, of course, I will wear a top, a pair of pants, a topper, and my larger pair of shoes.
But just now I put things out to see how it all went together. All the tops match all the pants. That gives me a lot of options. I think I’ll bring a black sleeveless dress that can be worn as a jumper as well if I put a top underneath. So even more options.
And then what happens? I second guess myself. I think, “Oh I look drab! This is just so boring!” And I want more “stuff” so I start searching online for things I simply don’t need. I just did go through an Amazon search (meanwhile I’m trying to swear off Amazon) looking of scarves that are colorful. I opened a ton of windows. Then I closed them all.
So I am reminding myself here, in order to stick to the plan.
And in every photo I’ve ever seen of you, you look amazing and so well put together. At 77 and living rurally, I’m all about comfort and love my wool because I can be comfy and still look good (at least good enough for hubby and me).
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YES to comfort, Donna! And thank you so much for your kind words. 🩷
Now off to work I go … in my wool, of course!